
Bernice McClester — my Great Aunt Bee — was a heck of a woman. I don’t know what having her as a grandma must have been like, but I know being her great niece was a privilege.
Aunt Bee was one of four daughters. My Grandma Sara and great aunts Bee, Martha and Elnora made childhood a magical place that my siblings, cousins and I will never forget. The “four sisters” are legends. They provide fodder for stories already being passed on to the next generation. And though I can’t describe it all, here are a few highlights.
Aunt Bee hosted pond parties and cookouts, skating parties and pony rides. She wore Band-aids instead of bras when it was hot outside. She traveled around the world on mission trips. She was a home economist and the most loyal Buckeyes fan Ohio State has ever had.
Aunt Bee and Grandma Sara taught my brother, sisters and I to ski — they were in their 70s and early 80s! Aunt Bee made several rafting treks down the Grand Canyon. She usually drove a station wagon and had room for everyone. She had the biggest Christmas tree every year. She made banana punch on special occasions and sometimes for every day. She documented our entire family’s history from its beginning, or almost. She hosted foreign exchange students and invited us to go along on trips to Cedar Point and Washington, D.C.
She donated her body to science. She attended church every Sunday. She had a grandfather clock that kept track of time and a big, luxurious bathroom with carpet the color of green grass. She walked and jogged every day. She kept binoculars in the kitchen. She had a map in her living room with pins marking every place she’d traveled. She and great uncle Bob were the first in Ohio to donate land for an agricultural easement to the Ohio Department of Agriculture. She was a daughter, sister, farm wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and friend to all.
I was lucky enough to have Aunt Bee in my life. Today, I am lucky enough to share her view.
I posted the above photo last week. This is Aunt Bee’s barn, taken from my yard.
On June 28, she found her place in Glory.
Sing the wondrous love of Jesus,
Sing His mercy and His grace.
In the mansions bright and blessed
He’ll prepare for us a place.When we all get to Heaven,
What a day of rejoicing that will be!
When we all see Jesus,
We’ll sing and shout the victory!While we walk the pilgrim pathway,
Clouds will overspread the sky;
But when traveling days are over,
Not a shadow, not a sigh.
When we all get to Heaven,
What a day of rejoicing that will be!
When we all see Jesus,
We’ll sing and shout the victory!Let us then be true and faithful,
Trusting, serving every day;
Just one glimpse of Him in glory
Will the toils of life repay.When we all get to Heaven,
What a day of rejoicing that will be!
When we all see Jesus,
We’ll sing and shout the victory!Onward to the prize before us!
Soon His beauty we’ll behold;
Soon the pearly gates will open;
We shall tread the streets of gold.When we all get to Heaven,
What a day of rejoicing that will be!
When we all see Jesus,
We’ll sing and shout the victory!












Words are not my thing but definately yours! What a tribute! Aunt Bernice was an amazing lady who will always be remembered! The memories that stand out the most in my mind are the chocolate handprints that adorn her doorway, the popcorn parties where she let it fly all over the room, and wax fantasies!
Thanks so much for writing this! So many amazing memories and so beautifully described!
What a beautiful tribute, Jennifer-and a great picture! You made Neil laugh out loud with you story about the cows . Thanks for the memories.
She leaves behind an amazing legacy! Thanks for writing what we all feel! I am with mother goose in remembering the wax fantasies and popcorn parties! Also marigold jelly!
What an amazing lady. I had forgotten the wax fantasies, the basement with those stone walls and the fountain. I remember all the laughter that filled her house. She was so much fun!!
Nashville….it was dandelion jelly not marigold silly!
Thanks Jennifer! I didn’t really cry til I read this. What memories!
I never had the pleasure of meeting Bee but got to know how amazing she was through stories Mallory would share. She was an incredible woman that I’m sure made a lasting impact on many.
My deepest sympathy to the family and friends whose lives she touched.
What a lovely tribute, Jenneifer, and all.
She was my Auntie Bee. I will always remember and cherish her as a very alive woman who lived life to the fullest. In later years as I grew to know and appreciate other cultures, I so appreciated my Auntie Bee and Uncle Bobby telling stories and showing pictures of mission trips to the far corners of the world. In so many ways they were a team and returned their good fortune in life as they gave freely in servcie to others.
And as I honor Bee in her passing, I am taken back to that farm in Ohio where I spent many happy childhood summer days. Another generation has passed from this place and still the legacy of Kenwood farm, so genuinely held and nurtured by Bee and Bob, will live on.
WHAT A MOVING TRIBUTE — MAKES US ALL WANT TO BE GREAT PARENTS, GRANDPARENTS, AND AUNTS!
I AM FORTUNATE TO BE A FRIEND OF JEAN WHO INHERITED MANY OF HER MOTHER’S CARING, LOVING WAYS.